On the move
Posted by Julian on Thursday Sep 15, 2011Sometimes you’ve got to take a risk to make a dream come true. Right now, me and my family are making the biggest move of our lives so far.
Earlier this year I announced that I would be sailing single handed around Great Britain and Ireland. This was to help build up my profile and be a warm up to me competing in the 2013 edition of the OSTAR – the original single-handed transatlantic yacht race. Unfortunately, due to lack of sponsorship, this didn’t happen. So it’s been a very disappointing time considering the amount of time and sheer hard work I put into the project to try and make it happen. But these things happen.
I think a big part of the problem has been where I live. My home is in Bradford, Yorkshire and about as land locked as you can get. It’s not the thriving center of sailing excellence as you would imagine! Working from a base so far from the sea, has put me at a serious disadvantage. I would really have loved to be able to bounce some ideas around, rub shoulders and talk face to face with people, who frankly have a lot more experience than me at putting together a sailing campaign. But chances like these have been few and far between.
However, in July I was offered a job in Southampton – I snapped there hands off and took it. So for the first time in my life, I’m leaving Yorkshire, my family and friends, to live by the sea – on the Isle of Wight!
It’s a really exciting time but it’s also a stressful and emotional time. As I write this I’m in my rented room in Southampton whilst my Wife and Daughter remain hundreds of miles away in Yorkshire until we sell the house. Changing jobs is stressful anytime, as is moving house and changing schools, but doing them all at once is a whole new level. I sometimes thought I was never going to survive it but things seem to be moving – slowl. All being well I should be reunited with my family around the middle of October when we finally move into our new home after a long time of being apart.
I’ve had some real kind words of encouragement from friends and family. They have all said it’s a brave move and that they admire me for doing it. But to me the real heros of this move are my Wife and Daughter, they are both making massive sacrifices for me. Fiona is giving up a job which she absolutely loves and Megan is having to leave her friends behind and move to a new school.
So here we are, starting a new chapter in life and working hard towards me competing in the 2013 edition of the OSTAR. So if anyone is able and willing to back me, a disabled sailor wanting to compete against the able bodied in the Original Single-handed Transatlantic Race, then please contact me. It’s going to be a fantastic story and you can be a part of it.

